Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Life huh? sometimes like a rainy day...


Wow, what a trip it has been.  Working on a photo book for my son for his 29th birthday has consumed me! Then working another “part time” job to make the ends closer and I am pooped.
Sometimes I think, “and this life huh?” 
This past weekend was our daughters birthday (20) and so the house filled up again and that always makes me just smile in wonder that these are OUR kids? Ha! 3 were studying in the dining room on Sunday, lets see there was a statistics college course, an honors physics high  school course, and a micro biology college course…then our one and only college graduate, so far, came over and has had to get a financial advisor to help him structure his portfolio!
Thankfully their father took a lot of these courses and even if he hadn’t he can generally read the chapter and explain the mechanics to the student! 
I majored in Language Arts! LOL so no math, no science.
But I do love a crowd of my kids and their friends. 

Our 27 year old started a tradition oh about 7 years ago.  He would call me from bars playing live music or from concerts of artists that he knew I would like to go to.  (He knows this 70’s heart pretty well)  He would call during a favorite song and we would sing it together, sometimes he would pass the phone around to his buds and say “talk to my mom” and I have known most of his buddies since they were 10!

Since then the family (parents included) call from concerts.  We call them, and they call us.  Our youngest called from a concert she went to with her sister last night…Regina Spector, a great artist the girls introduced me to.  She called so I could sing with her and her sister during 2 of our most favorite songs!  Biggest difference, there wasn’t a drunken sound in her voice! Not yet anyway!

The son that started all this, well he is a hard working guy now with lots of responsibility and ha, doesn’t like to go out on the week nights anymore, and has a “schedule” to keep on Sundays to get ready for Monday.
Damn, even the kids are getting old LOL

Friday, October 2, 2009

oh its friday..guess what that means





This little sand ~ fairy,


could flutter down the beach on her toes…


with a bucket of cold beer and wine coolers. 

dancing to music that played in her headphones,


big sunglasses and  smile.


Certain this day would last forever 
well if not the day then the figure! 


To see the origin of this fun, fantasy friday game...well check out Mr. Knowitall, (who is probably having a kick ass weekend)





Sunday, September 27, 2009

reality? where is it

Last weekend my husband and I had one of those discussions.  And in the midst of it I had told him my perspective of life and he replied, "we all have our own reality".  Well it has come back to me several times over the course of the week.
Words, beliefs, experiences, dreams probably do strongly influence our reality.  So then what is reality?  Does anyone really know?  I decided to do a google search and see what different ideas were quotable for ponder.
  
How reluctantly the mind consents to reality!  ~Norman Douglas


This one rings true for me now.  So many times my perspective of things, life, going on around me is not as bad as I perceive it nor is it as good as I feel certain that it should be for all concerned.  Words others say and the way the are taken can so often be almost a different language.  In particular men and women say and hear words so differently.  Not all but many do which leads to my next quote:


I have a very firm grasp on reality!  I can reach out and strangle it any time!  ~Author Unknown



Great appreciation for times when words  are at least the same color and amazed when couples live in the same reality.